"The best thing one can do when it's raining is to let it rain."Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
|
Warning: fopen(stopka/index.php) [function.fopen]: failed to open stream: No such file or directory in /stopka.php on line 117
Warning: fopen(stopka/6655d922aa2c1bbb44b556c10262be35.txt) [function.fopen]: failed to open stream: No such file or directory in /stopka.php on line 117
| |
10 Tips for Setting a Budget and Sticking to It
When you're learning about something new, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of relevant information available. This informative article should help you focus on the central points. Budget concerns can be one of the most prominent sources ...
Customer Loyalty - multi-national strategy on mini budget
Abstract Customer Loyalty is a key element to profit growth. We can gain customers one by one yet lose them ten by ten if we do not prepare and deliver appropriately. Simple research will show us that customers cannot be forced into loyalty, we must earn ...
Preparing a Budget
Ok, you say, I know I need a budget, but how do I prepare one? The most common budget period is one year, but this can vary depending on whether or not your business has seasonal or cyclical fluctuations. For example if you run a Christmas decorations ...
|
|
|
| |
Hopefully, you won't need this section on budget trouble, but it does happen. Combine emotions with money and new families and it can certainly be the right mix for disaster. So, how do you deal with it and still see everyone smiling and happy at the wedding?
Making the rules
Silly as it sounds, it may help to have a few ground rules for all the adults that are chipping in for the wedding. Perhaps you could all go out to eat and discuss what you want to do. Figure out who will pay for what and write it down.
In the case of step and extended families, it may not be this easy. Unsettled discussions might creep in and accusations of one side doing more than the other can come to light. For this case, you want to talk to each side by themselves. This way neither side will be able to compare their amounts (and you won't tell either side), and you can talk to them about their wishes in private.
It's sad that you have to be the peacekeeper in this situation, but it will help for a smoother day.
A separate peace
Another way to deal with the budget and any possible arguments is to set up a separate checking account into which all of the contributors can make deposits. This way, only you know the balance because you'll get the checks to make the actual deposits and everyone gets to chip in as they can.
You may also want to take the halves of the family out for different shopping errands. This way they can help with choosing items that you need, while also picking up the tab along the way. A lot of parents enjoy being active parts of the wedding plans, rather than just the money source.
In most cases, you won't have to deal with too much fuss over the wedding budget, but if you should, the best advice is to talk about it immediately. The longer you wait on something, the more stressful it will become to you and you don't need that when you're trying to plan a happy day.
Sit everyone down and try to talk out whatever is bothering them. And if something is bothering you, it's best to just be honest. Let them know if they don't seem to be pulling their weight or if they're constantly talking about your other parent negatively. There's nothing to be gained from pretending that everything is alright.
About the author:
Amy Spade is an expert on planning weddings, and she has written an amazing totally free minicourse on how to make sure that you have the day of your dreams, and avoid wedding day disaster!
Get the free course "Your Special Day from Start to Finish" now at at http://www.weddingdata.com
|
|
|
|
|
|
 |
Fuel costs continue to crimp budgetsHouston ChronicleBy Bryan Kirk Law enforcement agencies throughout Harris County are scanning their budgets as they look to find ways to keep rising fuel costs under control. The Harris County Sheriff's Office, the third-largest law enforcement agency in the United ...and more » |
|
A nudge toward budgetingMcKnight's Long Term Care NewsFor much of my life, I adopted a fairly casual attitude towards budgets and money. I believed in working hard and knew that money mattered; I just took a “God (or my parents) will provide” approach. It turns out that becoming an adult involves ... |
|
City council examines fire, police department budgetsBillings GazetteWith costs rising and funding options dwindling, the City Council began its budgeting process for fiscal year 2013 at a work session Monday night. Budget requests for two of the city's most expensive divisions funded through the General Fund — the ...and more » |
|
